Add calendar color support (DAVx5 calendar-color)

Calendars can now have a color (hex, e.g. #3b82f6) that DAVx5 and other
CalDAV clients pick up via the Apple/dav4jvm calendar-color property.

- db: add calendars.color column with migration for existing DBs;
  CreateCalendarWithColor, SetCalendarColor, GetCalendarColor;
  ListCalendars now returns []Calendar{Name, Color} instead of []string
- caldav: since go-webdav's caldav.Backend interface has no extension
  point for vendor properties, wrap the handler with a response-rewriting
  middleware that injects <calendar-color xmlns="http://apple.com/ns/ical/">
  into PROPFIND responses for calendars that have a color set
- web: color picker on the "New calendar" form and an inline color swatch/
  picker on each calendar card (calendars only, not address books)
- nidusctl: `calendar create --color` flag and a new `calendar color`
  subcommand; `calendar list` now also prints the color if set

Co-authored-by: Copilot <223556219+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

internal/web/resources_test.go

@@ -32,8 +32,8 @@ func TestCreateAndDeleteCalendarViaWebUI(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Fatalf("ListCalendars: %v", err)
 	}
 	found := false
-	for _, n := range names {
-		if n == "vacation" {
+	for _, c := range names {
+		if c.Name == "vacation" {
 			found = true
 		}
 	}
@@ -67,8 +67,8 @@ func TestCreateAndDeleteCalendarViaWebUI(t *testing.T) {
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("ListCalendars: %v", err)
 	}
-	for _, n := range names {
-		if n == "vacation" {
+	for _, c := range names {
+		if c.Name == "vacation" {
 			t.Fatalf("expected vacation calendar to be gone, got %v", names)
 		}
 	}