Add calendar/address-book sharing backend

Introduce internal/db, a small SQLite-backed store (pure-Go
modernc.org/sqlite, no CGO) at <data_dir>/nidus.db holding
calendar_shares and addressbook_shares grant tables (owner, resource
name, shared-with user, read/write permission). This is the first step
towards user management and a web UI: a real datastore that a future
admin CLI/UI can build on, instead of the static config.yaml.

Wire sharing into the CalDAV/CardDAV backends:
- ListCalendars/ListAddressBooks now also include resources shared with
  the requesting user, exposed under the synthetic local name
  "<owner>~<name>" in the grantee's own home-set — no separate account,
  no data copying, the object still physically lives under the owner's
  store.Store namespace.
- All read paths (Get/List/QueryCalendarObjects, address book
  equivalents) resolve the synthetic name back to (owner, real name) and
  require any share (read or write) to exist.
- All write paths (Put/Delete object, DeleteCalendar/AddressBook)
  additionally require a write-permission share; read-only shares get a
  403 Forbidden.
- CreateCalendar/CreateAddressBook remain scoped to the acting user's own
  namespace — sharing an existing collection is done via ShareCalendar/
  ShareAddressBook, not by creating one directly in someone else's name.

Add internal/db/shares_test.go (grant/lookup/update/unshare/list
semantics) and internal/{caldav,carddav}/backend_test.go (shared
calendar/address book visibility, write permission enforcement,
unauthorized access rejection). Update README (features, new "Sharing
calendars and address books" section, project layout, dependencies) and
copilot-instructions.md to document the new package and sharing model.

Co-authored-by: Copilot <223556219+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

go.mod

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 module github.com/yourusername/caldav-server
 
-go 1.22
+go 1.25.0
 
 require (
 	github.com/emersion/go-ical v0.0.0-20240127095438-fc1c9d8fb2b6
@@ -11,4 +11,16 @@ require (
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1
 )
 
-require github.com/teambition/rrule-go v1.8.2 // indirect
+require (
+	github.com/dustin/go-humanize v1.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/google/uuid v1.6.0 // indirect
+	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.24 // indirect
+	github.com/ncruces/go-strftime v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/remyoudompheng/bigfft v0.0.0-20230129092748-24d4a6f8daec // indirect
+	github.com/teambition/rrule-go v1.8.2 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.47.0 // indirect
+	modernc.org/libc v1.74.4 // indirect
+	modernc.org/mathutil v1.7.1 // indirect
+	modernc.org/memory v1.11.0 // indirect
+	modernc.org/sqlite v1.56.0 // indirect
+)